tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7051236463724548124.post6678536071507006618..comments2019-10-17T19:59:41.146-07:00Comments on Infertility UGH: Nixyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14635739872891276254noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7051236463724548124.post-28155785537376558752009-12-14T00:00:08.489-08:002009-12-14T00:00:08.489-08:00Aww, thanks for the 'shout out' :)
Maybe.....Aww, thanks for the 'shout out' :)<br />Maybe... maybe Sweets is so uncommunicative about it because inside it's really a raw spot and he doesn't want to open up like that? It can take a lot for a guy to admit that IF in emotional for him, especially since it can seem like such a female desire and not so much the yearning of a man's heart. Does that make sense? It's a more positive possibility. Sometimes when I don't think my DH is reacting appropriately and we talk about it it's becaue he's unsure of how I want him to react to make it better not worse. Another positive possibility?<br />I hope the session after the holidays goes well. And sorry about AF. Also, IVF is such a personal decision, but I hope you (and Sweets) can come up with a plan that is right for you. So glad your BFF brought some relief.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11122362716599059627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7051236463724548124.post-83790909511843404322009-12-13T20:03:51.664-08:002009-12-13T20:03:51.664-08:00Once again our hubbies seem to have a lot in commo...Once again our hubbies seem to have a lot in common... <br /><br />I wrote briefly about DH's reaction to our BFN after our first IUI in one of my posts: he was at a bar when I got my beta call, he couldn't hear me over the bar noise, so I hung up on him. Then, after I sulked for an hour in bed, he told me that I shouldn't be taking it so hard (!). <br /><br />I know DH loves me, and he wants me to be happy. But he's just so laid back about this whole thing! I read on other blogs husbands sharing in their wife's anger and frustration, and that's what I want, too. Because you're right, it makes me feel like I'm doing it all alone, like he doesn't care about it as much as I do.<br /><br />I don't have any advice for you, unfortunately... but I know how you feel, so I hope that helps at least a little!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482387222906180900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7051236463724548124.post-23373429693104891462009-12-13T19:12:21.437-08:002009-12-13T19:12:21.437-08:00Ah, hon. I'm so glad you got to talk to someo...Ah, hon. I'm so glad you got to talk to someone -- it truly does make you feel so much better. Perhaps in Sweets' defense he is uncommunicative because it bothers him and he doesn't know how to express it. Some men find it easier to "ignore" the issue rather than deal with the heartache. Just don't assume he doesn't care -- my guess is that this is bothering him more than he is willing to let on.<br /><br />Thinking of you, and sending lots of bloggy love your way.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00671922064140460790noreply@blogger.com